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'My evil boyfriend raped me in my sleep for TWO YEARS': Victim was sedated by PC's son who even took pictures as he abused her

A terrified woman has revealed her disgust at discovering her boyfriend of two years had repeatedly raped her while she slept.

Naomi Hampson, 27, only found out she had regularly fallen victim to sick Robert Fryer when police raided the couple's home.

Her perverted boyfriend would sedate her and often paint her nails and dress her in jewellery before taking photographs of his revolting acts and saving them on his computer.

Oblivious: Naomi was unaware Fryer had been raping her as she slept

Miss Hampson said: 'I'm disgusted when I think about what he did. It makes me feel dirty and completely violated. Not remembering anything makes it worse.

'It is so sinister all that time I was living with someone capable of that. He has no emotion. He is evil. And if the police hadn't found out I could have still been living with him. It's terrifying.'

Nottingham Crown Court heard in August that Fryer, a policeman's son, has the rare condition somnophillia - dubbed 'sleeping princess syndrome'.

 

He admitted raping Miss Hampson three times between 2008 and 2011. He also pleaded guilty to a separate charge of sexual activity without consent and was jailed for eight years.

The couple moved in together in Nottingham, having met on a night out in 2008, and Fryer was soon taking advantage of Miss Hampson , who struggled emotionally after her father John, 77, being was diagnosed with cancer.
Miss Hampson was drinking more than usual but would wake up on the sofa or in bed without any knickers on and sometimes wearing nail polish or jewellery - but had no memory of falling sleep.

Jailed: Fryer admitted raping Naomi at Nottingham Crown Court

Fryer was arrested after he told a friend about his despicable attacks, with officers later showing the pictures to Miss Hampson and explaining that they believed he had sedated her.

Miss Hampson, who has waived her right to anonymity to speak out, said Fryer had made out she was drinking too much. She described him as a psychopath and believes he got a thrill from the confused.
Miss Hampson told the Sunday People: 'My entire life has been shattered into thousands of tiny pieces and my soul feel broken. I hate him for what he did to me.'

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2241747/My-life-shattered-Woman-raped-sleep-sick-boyfriend-years.html#ixzz2E1h6Focd
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When it comes to gifts, it's not the thought that counts. At least not in America's wealthiest households.
Two-thirds of affluent American women want gift cards. But less than a fifth of men will give it to them, according to a report from American Express Publishing and the Harrison Group out Thursday.
Instead, 70% of women are gifted clothing or jewelry.
A survey of 625 households that represent the top 10% of the nation's wage earners found a wide gap between what people want and what they will actually get.
Men should also lower their expectations. They want food and alcohol -- a third are hoping for gourmet foods and fine wine, and another third want gift cards. But women like to give none of those -- 30% are expected to give clothing, and another 15% books.
What wealthy shoppers are better suited for will be giving gifts to themselves.
Nearly half of women said they were extremely, or very likely, to buy themselves presents this holiday season. A third of men have similar intentions.
"Perhaps America is giving itself a bonus this year," said Jim Taylor, vice chairman of Harrison Group, in a statement.
Holiday retail sales are expected to increase 4.1% this year, according to estimates from the National Retail Federation. That's the most optimistic forecast from the group since the recession.
The American Express and Harrison Group survey found that gift giving will be down overall this year, but the top 10% will spend nearly 22% more on gifts this year than they did in 2011.

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KWA WADADA WOTE YAWAHUSU:
NI NDEFU SAN LAKINI NAKUSHAURI CHUKUA HATA DK CHACE KUSOMA ITAKUSAIDIA SANA
KWA NINI WENGI HUUMIZWA NA WANAUME KATIKA MAHUSIANO NA NDOA,BA JE INAATHIRI VIPI NAFASI YAKO NA MUNGU,JE UMEJITAMBUA NA KUJIFAHAMU YA KUTOSHA ?JE UNAWAFAHAMU WANAUME VEMA NA NGUVU/UWEZO WA KUATHIRI AU KUJENGA MAISHA YAKO NA MABAO KADHA WA KADHA!
JE USHAWAHI JIULIZA MASWALI HAYA YAFUATAYO NA KAMA NDIO UKO WPAI KATIKA NAFASI YAKO :
1.kwa nini ulizaliwa mwanamke na kwa nini ulizaliwa katika familia hiyo na si mahali pengine?

2.KWA NINI MUNGU ALIMUUMBA MWANAMKE KUTOKA KATIKA UBAVU NA SI KATIKA MFUPI MWINGINE WOWOTE WAKATI MWANUME AN MIFUPA MINGI?
3.KWA NINI MWANAMKE ALIPEWA TUMBO LA UZAZI?
4.KWA NINI MUNGU HAKUMLAANI MWANAUME BALI ARDHI KWA AJILI YA MWANAUME NA KWA NINI MWANAMKE ALIBEBA LAANA KATKA MWILI WAKE?
5.KWA NINI ULIUMBWA WAKATI MUNGU AMEMALIZA UUMBAJI WOTE KATIKA DUNIA NA KWA NINI MUNGU ALIMFANY MWANUME AWE NA USINGIZI MZITO WAKATI WA UUMBAJI WAKO?
6.VITU GANI MUNGU ALIWEKA KWA MWANAMKE HATA KACHA KUMTEMBELEA ADAMU TENA KWANI VYOTE ALIWEKA KWA MWANAMKE NA JE UNAJUA KWA ANINI MUNGU ALIMAANISHA KUMUWEKA MWANAMKE?
7.NI KAMA TAJI NA NI MLINZI, NINI KAZI YA TAJI NA THAMANI YAKE NA PIA KWA NINI HAIVALIWI HOVYO HOVYO MH?
8.NINI THAMANI YA MWANMKE NA NINI INAMPA TOFAUTI KUBWA NA THAMNI KWA MWANUME YEYOTE NA MBELE ZA MUNGU NA KWANINI MUNGU ALIWEKA KWA WANAWAKE NA SI WANUME KITU HIKI JE THMANI YAKE NINI NI KINA UMUHIMU GANI KWA MAISHA YAKO?

 

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TAFAKARI KWA MAKINI NA HUKUA HATUA MADHUBUTI SANA
USIJE KUOA AU KUOLEWA KWA SABABU ZIFIAUTAZO:-
1.NGUVU YA MSUKUMO TOKA KWA WAZAZI

2.KIGEZO CHA UMRI(KUWA UMRI UNAENDA SANA HIVYO UTASHINDWA KULEA WATOTO)
3.NGUVU YA MSUKUMO KUTOKA KATIKA KANISA AU MAHALI UNAPOABUDU
4.MSUKUMO KUONA WENZAKO (AGEMET) WAKO WANAOA AU KUOLEWA
5.KUPATA WATOTO(KWANI WASIPOPATIKANA NDOA NYINGI HULETA SHIDA)
6.KUMALIZA HAMU YA TENDO LA NDOA(KWANI KILA WAKATI UTAKUWA NA MWENZI WAKO NA HIVYO HAMU ILIISHA BASI HAKIKA UJUE NA UPENDO UTAISHA)
7.KUPATA MALI AU KITU FULANI KWANI VISIPOPATIKANA AU VIKIIISHA HULETA MAAFA KATIKA NDOA)
8.USIOE/KUOLEWA KWA UMBO NA VITU VYA NJE KWANI NI VYA MUDA MFUPI SANA.

KWA NINI UOE/UOLEWE?
SIMAMA NA NGOJA KATIKA AHDI ZA MUNGU NA MIKILIZE MUNGU NA SI WANDAMU KWANI UTII NI BORA KULIKO SADAKA NA KILA KITU,MUHIMU KAA CHINI MTAFAKARI MUNGU NA YEYE ATAFNYA KWANI YEYE HAKAWII WALA HACHELEWI KUJIBU AHADI ZAKE NA HUKUZA AHDI KULIKO JINA LAKE NA AHDI YAKE NI KUWA SI VEMA MTU HUYU AWE PEKE YAKE SO ANAJUA KUWA UNATAKA MUME/MKE BUT SUBIRI WAKATI WAKE ACHA KUONJA/KUONJESHA LADHA YA NDOA. Zab105:19 Mdo5:29 Zab138:2

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kissing is a pleasure,
fucking is a
game,
guys get all the
pleasure,
girls get all the pain,he
says he loves u nd u believe its
true until ua belly starts to swell
and he says hell with u.

10minutes
of pleasure,9months and pain,3
days in hospital.
a child without a
name, the baby is bastard, the
mother is a whore...
this never
would have happened if the
rubber hadnt tore....

Take care ladies..

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MUST READ: MOM
(3 minutes only)

There was once a poor woman who tried hard to educate her kids.
she had only one ragged dress!

she wore it during week days and weekends..
Either going to the garden or going to church.
Luckly her kids got good jobs....
They agreed to buy her expensive clothes and jewels then took them to her!!
she was very glad to her kids..
That sunday after bathing since she loved her long old ragged dress she wore it then on the top she wore the new expensive clothes her kids bought for her together with the jewels...
As she entered the church everybody stared at her and no one wanted to sit near nor be assotiated with her...
kids made fun of her saying she was mad!
Even with the new clothes and expensive jewels she appeared dirty and crazy because of the ragged dress she wore inside.

MORAL LESSON:
The same case with our lives if our hearts are full of dirty things e.g
Jeolous, hatred, selfishness and being mean no matter how beautiful and clean we are before God.
we are dirty..

NOTE:
we better change...

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REALLY TOUCHING SAD STORY (THE GUY CRIED)
;(
There was once this guy who was very much in love with his girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of
paper cranes as a gift to his girl.
Although, at that time he was just a small fry in his company, his future didn't seem too bright, they were very happy together.

Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she can not visualize any future for the both of them, so they went their own ways there and then...

Heartbroken, the guy agreed. But when he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of
himself.

Finally with all the hard work and the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company.. You never fail until you stop trying. One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realize they were his girl's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan.

He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same any more; he had his own company, car, condo, etc.

He made it! What he saw next confused him, the couple was walking towards a cemetery, and so he got out of his car and followed...
and he saw his girl, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone and he saw his paper cranes right beside her...

Her parents saw him.

He asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all.
She was ill with cancer. She had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want to be his obstacle...
therefore she had chosen to leave him. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again...
He can take some of those back with him...

MORAL LESSON:
Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever.
The guy just wept......

NOTE:
The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside her knowing you can't have her, see her or be with her ever again.........

Hope you understand.
Find time to realise that there is one person who means so much to you, for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought meant nothing to you
;(
KINDNESS Pays!

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A boy loved a gal.
He was a true lover. He talked to d gal many times abt his attrction 2wards her, bt she ignored him. One day d boy brought a pen for d gal. He gav her d pen. D gal took dat pen wid her wen she had to giv her xams. But as she started writing, d pen stopd wrkng. She didnt hv another pen. Nobody helpd her nd she finally failed in d xam. She was a gud student otherwise.
Depressed, she ws walkin alone on a road at nyt whn suddnly a truck hit her nd she died.
Wen d boy came 2 knw abt dis, he 2 suicided by jumping frm a mountain. Dat was d end of d 2 lovers.

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 HARD TO KNOW

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Not everythng goes as we want, there are times when thngs dont go our way and we cant help to complain and get mad at ourselves, our beloved ones and even complain to God! Bt we must remember that everythng happens 4 a reason! So in any case we have to trust in God, coz he've better plans 4 our lives and most of al he loves us alot! Cases like ths happen

Me: God can i ask u a question
GOD: sure
Me: but promis u wont get mad okey?!
GOD: i promis
Me: why dd u let so much stuf happened to me yesterday
GOD: what do u min?
Me: well i woke u late
GOD:Yes?
Me:my car took 4eva to start and i ddnt get to work on tym
GOD: okey?
Me: at lunch they made my food Wrong and i had to wait
GOD: Mmmh?
Me: on ma way home ma fon went dead jst as i pickd it up
GOD: alright?
Me: and to top it al off when i got home i jst wantd to soak my feet in my new foot massager and relax but it wouldnt work! Nothng went ryt 4 me. Why dd u do that?!
GOD:lets see, the death angel was at ur bed the other mornin n i had to send one of my angels to battle him 4 ur lyf! Thats why i let u sleep through
Me:(humbled) oh
GOD: i ddnt let ur car start coz ther was a drunk driver on ur rout that would have hit u if u were on the road
Me:(ashamed)
GOD: The first person who made ur lunch was sick and i ddnt want u to catch what they have! I knw u wouldnt aford to mis ur work n clases
Me:(embarased)okey
GOD:ur phon died coz the person called was gng to lie to u abt that issue in the office! Thats why i ddnt let u talk to them
Me:(softly) i see
GOD: Oh and abt the massager it hat a shortage that was gng to cut through the power in ur house an i ddnt thnk u wanted to b in the dark
Me:im sory ma Lord
GOD:dnt be jst learn to trust me in al thngs good or bad
Me: i promc 2 trust u 4ever
GOD: And dont dout my plan for ur day is always better than urs
Me: i wont God let me tel u thanx 4 everthng
GOD:ur welcome my child, it was jst another day being ur God &father and i love lookng after ma children

We always saf around hm, he knew us b4 we were born, he created us, he knws ur end and he always whats best 4 us! He can test us but he'll never crucify us! All we've to do is to entrust our faith in hm

THE GREATEST AND THE BEST LOVE OF THEM ALL!




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There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

He asked
her,'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying:
'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.
Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

Life Is a Gift

Today
before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak.

Before
you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before
you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.

Today
before you complain about life - Think of someone who died too early

Before
you complain about your children - Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.

Before
you get upset because your housemaid had not show up to clean your dirty house - Think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before
whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when
you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

But
before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us is perfect.

And when
depressing thoughts seem to get you down...
Put a smile on your face and think:
Hey, im alive and still around!


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 Naitwa Hassani mimi nina miaka 43 ni mwenyeji wa tanga lakini kwa sana naishi shinyanga maana ninafanya kazi kwenye mgodi mmoja hivi.nimeoa na nina watoto wawili,nampenda sana mke wangu kiasi kwamba sitaki apate shida yeyote ile.Mke wangu hana kazi yeyote ile kwa hiyo yeye ni mama wa nyumbani tu,ili kuonesha upendo wa dhati na uaminifu kwa mke nimeamua kumpa card yangu ya bank hivyo basi yeye ndo

anakuwa na maamuzi yote juu ya matumizi ya pesa,vilevile mimi sina simu bali huwa natumia simu ya mke wangu kufanya mawasiliano na ndugu na marafiki.Na nimefanya hivi ili kuepuka vishawishi vitakavyofanya nimsaliti mke wangu.Ngudu zangu wananisema sana wanadai eti nimetawaliwa na mwanamke,hawajui kwamba nafanya haya uote kutokana na mapenzi ya dhati niliyonayo kwa mke wangu.

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Naitwa jackson nina miaka 22 ni mwanafunzi wa chuo kikuu,nina kaka yangu ambaye tumezaliwa baba mmoja mama mmoja...kaka yangu ameoa mwaka mmoja uliopita na bado hajafanikiwa kupata mtoto.Mke wa kaka ni mzuri sana tena sana kiasi kwamba mwanaume yeyote rijali akimuona lazima atampenda.Tangu siku ya kwanza namfahamu shemeji yangu,alionesha kunichangamkia sana kitu kilichofanya nimzoee mapema sana.We

ek iliyopita wakati kaka yuko kazini mimi na shemeji tulikuwa sitting room tunaangalia filamu,shemeji alikatisha ukimya uliokuwa umetawala na kunitamkia kitu kilichonishtua sana.Aliniambia ananipenda mimi zaidi ya anavyompenda kaka na akadiriki kusema kwamba anajuta kuolewa na kaka yangu maana anahisi mapenzi yake yote yako kwangu.Akasema anajua kuolewa na mimi haitawezekana tena bali anachoomba ni mimi niwe na mahusiano naye ya kimapenzi kwa siri.

 



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 Naitwa Suzane nina miaka 23,nimeolewa miaka minne sasa na nina mtoto mmoja.Mwanzoni maisha ya ndoa upande wangu yalikuwa mazuri sana.Mwaka huu mwezi wa kwanza mume wangu amebadilika sana,yani anachelewa kurudi nyumbani,akija anakuwa amechoka sana kiasi kwamba analala kama gogo hata haki yangu ya ndoa hanipi kama zamani na hata akinipa inakuwa ni round moja tu tena ya haraka haraka.Hali hii inaniumiza sana maana mda mwingi nakuwa nahitaji lakini mume wangu ndo hivyo tena.






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Nii mwajiriwa wa kazi ambayo inanikidhi kimaisha,.Nikiwa chuo nilikuwa na msichana ambae ananipenda sana tena sana,.lkn mm nilikuwa cna hisia nae kabisa,.kila sku yule msichana alikuwa ananiomba tuwe wote lkn mm namwambia anipe muda,,.japokuwa hilo neno huwa linamuumiza...baada ya miezi kupita yule msichana ananipigia cm nakuniambia kuwa amepata mchumba,.kusema ukweli nahisi wivu sana,..pindi anapokuwa na mchumba wake hata ucku huwa anipigia nimsalimie..MWENZENU NIMEGUNDUA KUWA NAMPENDA SANA YULE NATAMANI KUFANYA KITU ILIASIOLEWE NA HUYO MCHUMBA YAKE..NAONA WIVU SANA HATA USINGIZI HUWA NAKOSA.